I decided when I was 17 never to have children. Some people are meant to have kids and be great parents. I didn't feel I could fill that role and didn't want to test the theory cause my feelings wouldn't change. I did become a step-parent for 5 years, and it was the hardest thing I have ever done trying to fit into an established family. I never felt I was part of the family but always the Plus One as an accessory to the household. I found it was too expensive to have children, and my personal freedom was compromised by having to be responsible for more than just one other person in my relationship. I hit moments in my life where I wasn't sure how I would afford to eat or pay my rent. I was glad I didn't have kids to drag them through my hardship. For some, it's a great sacrifice. I'm of the opinion that enough people already have kids to keep the world populated, me taking a backseat and having the flexibility to travel. Some call it selfish, others like me may call it a great decision. Why society looks down on others when deciding not to have kids is beyond my comprehension. Not having kids doesn't affect anyone but me and maybe it would have been nice to bring kids to see grandparents; however, wasn't a strong enough reason to do that. I know several women who feel pressured to have kids, and I think it's unfair. It's self-preservation versus being selfish. There is no guarantee that a child will grow up to like you even if you did your very best. I preferred not to take a risk. #nokids #beingaparent #shorts This video is closed-captioned for the deaf and hard-of-hearing communities. The captioning is also available in multiple languages such as Spanish, French, German, Italian and Portuguese. The written pattern is only available in English. __________________ FOLLOW US Website - https://ift.tt/IVdzQAk Facebook Page - https://ift.tt/qyKkBSx Facebook The Crochet Crowd Stitch Social - https://ift.tt/Vcmgd9w Tik Tok - https://ift.tt/P9kQUIg Instagram - https://ift.tt/cVnk2Uz Ravelry - https://ift.tt/2GQMepZ
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